Friday, September 25, 2015

Broken wisdom ii

Who am I? Who are you? Who is who? I have a name. You have a name. We all have a name. One  each or more. Some real, some fake. By names we are known. That's certain. But what's a name? Just a label may be. A sound or enery. Or simply a word. To me, its nought but a game. Used like in hide and seek. That we play to win. But we loose or win. Or draw sometimes. You won't agree? I don't mind. Because time 'll tell. Just wait and see. It won't be long. We w'd be gone. Just like the goners before. Time brings us. Time takes us. Nothing stays the same. Neither name nor fame. Life is a game. Change is the rule. Follow it or quit. It is tough. It is rough. But it's worth a play. Play good or bad, play real. Never fake. Play not with brain but with heart. B,cause brain knows no feeling. Only the heart does. You know? We are bound togehter by our hearts. Not by our brains. So, when time comes, it's better to go smiling. Rather than weeping. Intelligence can pass science and math exams but not life's test. Knowledge can buy money. Money can buy beau girl/boy friends, big houses and gadgets. A lots indeed. Money is power. Yes, right. But it's not all powerful. There are many things money can't buy. Money can't buy love. Sure you know this. More. Money can't buy life. Money can't buy a piece of mind. Forget about happiness. Money can't buy family, parents and siblings. Friends? I don't know. May be or may be not be. But I 'd say no. B'cause true friends stick around you forever. Even when you are penniless.

Well, let me get back on track before I go too far. Let me not astray. Actually, that's the whole point here. That's what I am trying to tell. That's, let's not go astray. Let us not be slaves of our names. Let's not be defined by our names. Let's not just be identified with it. I say, let's rise above our names. We can if we want. Let's be defined by our way of life. Let's be identified with our deeds instead. Of course, I mean by being a good human being. By good I mean, good to self, good to others and good to the world. To be more specific, be kind, loving and caring.  Everybody needs it. In fact, more than money. More than anything. More than ever. And by doing that or by giving that you give the best and the most. When you do that you don't need a name. I don't know what one would be known as then. Perhaps, a great person. If not, at least a good/kind person. But one thing I am absolutely sure. One will be carrying enough tickets to pass through the gates of karma. Besides, if you want to be remembered a bit longer on earth, it's never because of the name rather because of how well you lived you life. Not so much for self but more so for others. I believe so.

Wednesday, September 23, 2015

The Citizen

What does the word citizen mean? The dictionary meaning of the word citizen is ‘a person who has the legal right to belong to a particular country.’ If we go by the above statement we are undoubtedly the bona fide citizens of the kingdom of Bhutan. Yes, we are all citizens of Bhutan because we are born here and we live here in this country. This single fact makes us true Bhutanese. Our citizenship identity cards authenticate our citizenship.

On the contrary, hardly anybody knows or care to know what a true citizen means and what it takes to be one. As a matter of fact, it is a silently overstated cliché to us, the Bhutanese. Almost everybody takes it for granted. It is thought to be everybody’s birthright and enjoys it to the fullest but with little or no realization and obviously without gratitude. Of course, it is a birthright in a way but the birthright owes its existence to our past leaders and forefathers. It is a pity that we cannot feel its everyday essence. To add to that, it does not have a tangible face value for all of us, that is, to see, touch and to feel it. We get it for free – not having to pay a *chetrum. And we are used to not valuing things that come easily to us. That is why, we do not give due importance to our own citizenship. Besides, it is our forerunners who paid the price with their dear lives which is why we do not know its price. Even if we do, we do not care. They experienced the pain first and then the pleasure of citizenship but we experience only the pleasure. That makes it our greatest boon and the rarest legacy of our forefathers. So, it surely comes with a price meaning it is not free and is intangible. It has value but cannot be measured. It is indefinitely infinite. It is priceless. Its value is like that of the sun that brightens our land everyday. Its value is like the earth that causes all lives, air that keeps our lungs pumping, water that runs in our blood veins, and fire that warms our very being. Its value is our very existence as Bhutanese and as human beings.

Further, it does not mean that being a citizen is enough to be a citizen. A citizen has sacred duties to perform, roles and responsibilities to shoulder. Citizenship does not mean just being born and living in a particular country. It is more than being born and living in a country. It is more than possessing a citizenship identity card. It is much more than being a civil servant working eight hours a day and drawing salaries at the end of the month. Perhaps the changing times have altered the mindset of the people. The modernization has made our minds forget our values. We seem to have forgotten the principle saying “having drunk the water of the country one must abide by the laws of the country.” It seems to become more difficult every passing year to adhere to our old beliefs and old ways. It seems a lot easier to jump to new beliefs and adopt new ways. Unlike the past, it is easier for us to speak in outright manner but very reluctant to perform it. Unlike our ancestors, it is easier for us to make promises but difficult to keep it. Today, almost anybody and everybody says, ‘I love my motherland and I can die for my fatherland’ but nobody (but just a handful) loves ones motherland quite as much and is ready to die for ones fatherland. Everyone is a brave patriot in times of peace but everybody is a selfish coward in times of war (except a handful). If anyone thinks this wrong or offensive, just recall the December 2003 national operation against the Indian insurgents. Our brave king fought the world’s deadliest militants with just a handful of soldiers. Fortunately for Bhutan, the militants were thrashed out and our national sovereignty and identity was reinstated. Indeed, we are living today as proud Bhutanese because of our beloved king and our brothers who stood up against terrorism and defended our country. They were the real sons of soil, the true citizens of Bhutan - Drukpas through and through. I am certain that we have not forgotten it because it is too fresh an incident to be forgotten easily by our minds. Besides, it was the most modern and a historical war of all wars ever fought by Bhutanese for Bhutanese.  

In fact, it was the greatest call of duty in the 21st century after many decades of peace and prosperity but only one percent of the so-called citizens stood up by the king and 99 percent did not stir from their peaceful dreams. This in my opinion is not a true citizen’s character rather it is a character no less than that of a traitor. In all clear conscience, a true citizen will not sit and watch nor stand silently still nor still hide behind closed doors when called for national emergency and let its country fall in front of ones eyes. Instead, a true citizen will not even think twice to attend to the national duty such as that and shall fight till death to defend her/his fatherland. We as Bhutanese citizens have failed in our duties - we failed to serve the *Tsa-wa-sum. We (many of us) failed to serve our king, we failed to serve our country and we failed to serve our fellow countrymen. We failed in 2003. 

Some might argue that they also served their country by way of praying, reciting mantras and burning butter lamps to the Gods and the Guardian Deities. It does help and might have helped a lot during the operation but I must say that the country needed more people in the battlefield than in temples or homes. The country had enough monks, nuns, senior citizens and young students to pray and make offerings.

We must remember with our hearts that our beloved Drukgyal Zhipa has never failed us, not even once. He was there for us since 1972 and he has been there for us till now and certainly he will be there for us hereafter. He was there for us everyday, in good times and bad. He never turned his back on us, never. He did not fail us as a king. He did not fail us as a citizen. He performed his duties as a king well. He performed his duties as a citizen well. He has been the first and the foremost to stand up for his country whenever his country and his people needed. He has always been our loving father, our caring brother and a true friend, and more so as our supreme protector.

I for one know this much and can say this much that he is the greatest leader, the best teacher and the truest citizen of Bhutan. He is the greatest leader because he rules his country and his people with absolute goodness that the country is continuously developing and the people are happier everyday. He works hard everyday to ensure continuity of peace, prosperity and sovereignty for his people. He carefully studies the needs of the country and makes sure that every need whether big or small is answered. He ensures the overall wellbeing of his subjects with his noble set up of good governance system. Most of all, he has led us on the road to democracy which no monarch has ever done in the history of the world. Besides, he has opened a door to greater peace and happiness for the Bhutanese people with his unique concept of Gross National Happiness (GNH) which not even the wisest man in the history of mankind might not have thought of.

He is the best teacher because he teaches us and shows us the good ways to bettering the nation and the lives of his subjects. Like Buddha, he teaches us to follow middle path in all things that we do. He teaches us to be good citizens and shows us how to serve the nation with honesty and dedication. He teaches us to be patriots and shows us how to answer the call of duty. He teaches us to not to be corrupt and shows us how to volunteer for good movements. He teaches us to be good human beings and shows us real examples.

He is the most ideal citizen because he has never asked his country for anything but instead he has always done everything he could and given everything he has to his country and people. He attends to all his duties, big or small, and most willingly. Indeed, he lives his life absolutely for his people and his country. Nothing in the whole of the universe can come between him and his duty. His duty comes before his life. That, he believes and says is the substance of his life. He said once, “What is the use of a king if it is not for his people.” Thus, he is aptly comparable to God and his creations: God who loves his creation dearly.

I, as a citizen of Bhutan wish to confess to my fellow citizens that I had once failed in my duty just as many others have. Like others, I was too busy relishing peace and prosperity at home while duty called. I had turned my back on my country when needed the most. Honestly, I did wake up to the call of the duty but it was too late. Perhaps, this might seem like an excuse and it may be a lame excuse with most of us. What I mean is that we have failed once. We failed to attend to the most important duty as a citizen to the *Tsa-wa-sum. We may never get an opportunity to redeem ourselves because it is already a history. Nonetheless and more importantly, we have other equally significant duties to perform, now and in future. So let us rededicate ourselves for our future duties and not fail again as Bhutanese. It only takes an inner urge to do it. It is time that we ask ourselves whether we are failing in our duties or living up to it as a citizen of Bhutan. With the historical transition of monarchy to democracy in 2008, we the Bhutanese have a moral responsibility to make it successful. Since it is aspired and articulated by our most beloved Drukgyal Zhipa for the best interest of the people of Bhutan, we cannot afford to let his noble vision in vain. We as the citizens of Bhutan have a sacred duty of exercising the voting right given to us and choose the right leader or party. Choosing the right leader or party means choosing the right government for (we) the people of Bhutan. Casting vote is our individual duty. Fighting corruption is our individual duty. Serving *Tsa-wa-sum is our individual duty. So let us think as citizens, act as citizens and be real citizens. If we are true citizens, we should, would and could vote for the right leader or party. Let us just ask ourselves, ‘are we true citizens?’



Karma D. Gyeltshen @2008
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Saturday, September 19, 2015

Broken wisdom

I would like to call this a broken wisdom. Broken, because it's a collection of some broken thoughts.  Besides, my English is quite expected to be not in good order because of scanty past writing. This is my first real blog writing. And wisdom, because whatever I write comes from years of my personal experience. Yet I know it may not be worth a wisdom. Never mind.

So I tell myself, 'better be ready for the bumps, boy.' Yes life is full of errors. Just learning to tackle each in my own crazy little ways. Sometime it succeeds, sometime it doesn't but why care. Who cares actually. Life goes on and so you must. Go with the flow...that's how I encourage my spirit. This, I learned the hard way and so it's difficult to forget. I think so! I remember where I tried swimming against the current and it was painstakingly impossible. It really was and it really is. I can bet on that. You might have gone through such experiences too. I bet. Or may be not. Anyways, you know what? It's the science of life. To be more specific, you can call it biology. But not mathematics please.  There is no calculation what so ever. You can be logical but not calculative. Actually, I don't even know the difference between math and logic. So much for my education. What can you say about my wisdom. That's the irony of life, my life. Funny!

Think what you may. Say what you may. Do what you may. But I love this life. I am happy. It's so bad not to be happy. Bad I mean, not sad! It's so impossible not to be joyful. There is so much in life than you can imagine. So much that a single lifetime is too little to explore the goodness glory of the world. So much that all the languages of the world cannot stand a chance of just description. So much so. Yes of course I cry sometimes. Both with tears and without. I even curse people, time, life, self and others. I try not to but it happens, you see. Old habits die hard. But my point is, there is treasure in these tear drops. There is priceless value in these water drops. It's the home of golden moments. Its magic and miracle. How sad we don't see it, feel it or value it. If you notice, it is born of great emotions.  Emotions of happiness and sadness which is the true face of life. Or the body of life. Two togehter makes one. We are made of that. Really, I mean it. Yet we don't realize that. We tend to detest tears, but why? I just wonder. Look carefully and you will see that there is nothing more beautiful than a tear drop. It is more beautiful than the Zen garden or the coral reef or the mount everest. Even more beautiful than the most beautiful lover. How romantic! So, come my dearest friends let us live life. Let us explore life. Let us seek some adventure...real adventure. But I warn you: no expectations. Not even a single expectation please. Please!